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Our Latest Episodes:
How to Develop Enlightened Audacity – A Key to More Powerful Intimacy [EP158]
Enlightened audacity is an almost magical recipe for creating excitement, tenderness, and deeper connection in your relationships. In this episode, you’ll learn how to develop your own personal brand of enlightened audacity.
The Power of Speaking Your Truth [EP157]
Coming out is not just for LGBTQ people! The power of speaking your truth, even when it’s scary, is an act of courage that changes our lives, and our relationships. It’s scary, it’s exhilarating, and when it’s mixed with compassion for yourself and the ones you care about, it opens the door to freedom and love in whole new ways. In this episode, you’ll learn some beautiful practices to help you speak the truths that are scary in a way that’s healing and empowering.
Deeper Dating Q&A: Expert Advice for All Your Questions About Love, Dating and Sex [EP156]
In this Deeper Dating Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, and dating to Ken, and get his direct personal advice. In this episode, we explore how to distinguish Attractions of Deprivation from Attractions of Inspiration, how to get past chronic self-blame when a relationship ends, and lots more.
How to Develop and Expand Your Authentic Personal Magnetism [EP155]
So much dating advice diminishes our personal magnetism, blurs our authenticity, and dissipates our sense of empowerment. In this episode, you’ll learn skills to deepen, empower and expand your unique, authentic magnetism, which will radically and wonderfully shift your entire intimacy journey.
The Pledge That Will Change Your Future in Love [EP154]
There is a pledge that you can make that will change your future in love, which means changing your entire future. In this episode, you’ll learn what that pledge is, and even take it yourself. And then…just watch the changes that will happen!
What No One Teaches Us About Our Attachment Styles [EP153]
There are four main attachment styles: Where do you fit in? What are the gifts and challenges for your attachment style that no one might have told you? And how can you use that information to find and cultivate healthy love?
The Biggest Obstacles to Finding Love – and How to Move Past Them [EP152]
120 people described the biggest obstacles they experience in their search for love. Here were their biggest struggles–and the solutions that emerged.
How to Stop Being Controlled by Fear of Rejection [EP151]
Fear of rejection is so painful and holds us back in so many ways— including in our search for healthy love. How do you dramatically turn down the volume on your fear of rejection? In this episode, you’ll learn how. If fear of rejection has been an issue for you, this episode could make a powerful difference.
How to Create Your Own Practices For Deeper Intimacy [EP150]
Would you like to create personal practices that let you uncover your unique intimacy-wisdom, are built for you, designed for you, and fit into the realities of your life? Stay tuned to this DIY (Do It Yourself) episode of The Deeper Dating® Podcast and you’ll learn how!
Why Do We Fall For People Who Are Bad For Us? [EP149]
Why do our most intense romantic passions so often end in disaster? Why do these “attractions of deprivation” feel like real love–even as they lead us off the edge of a cliff? You’ll learn about exactly why that happens in this episode.
Your Search for Love is a Hero’s Journey: Here’s Why [EP148]
What are the three greatest challenges we face in the search for love? And what are the three points of possibility and empowerment at each of these points? In this episode, you’ll learn why your relationship search is actually a hero’s journey — and how that insight can transform your dating life.
How to Decide if Your Relationship is Right for You [EP147]
Should I go or should I stay? Is this the right relationship for me? Is this a healthy and good relationship? Is it one I should commit to? If you’ve ever asked yourself these questions ( or if you’re asking them now) this episode offers keys to help you to find your own answers.
What’s the Most Important Personality Trait for a Happy and Fulfilled Life? [EP037] REPLAY
This is a big one: What is the single most important personality trait for having a happy, fulfilled life? In this episode, you’ll find out what that trait is and how you can cultivate it!
What You NEED to Know About The Ick [EP145]
Everyone’s talking about The Ick; when you suddenly lose your attraction to someone you like. “The Ick” is the single greatest enemy of healthy new love–and no one teaches us what causes it or how to get past it! That’s precisely what you’ll learn here! If you’ve ever experienced this painful dynamic, don’t miss this episode–it could change your future in love.
How “Oversensitivity” Creates Success in Love [EP144]
Do you worry that you may be oversensitive in your relationships? These research-backed insights prove that your intense sensitivity is actually a powerful tool for success in love! In this episode, you’ll learn how to use the gift of your sensitivity more wisely and effectively.
How to Tap the Power of Your Own Intimacy-Wisdom [EP143]
Every time you embrace a new insight in your intimacy journey, you change your future and speed your path to love. In this episode, we’re going to talk about these precious micro-doses of wisdom: How to invite them and then use them to transform your search for love and your life. If intimacy matters to you, don’t miss these wonderful tools!
How to Discover Your Deepest Core Gifts: A 3-Step Process [EP142]
Discovering Your Core Gifts transforms your search for love in powerful, often stunning ways–because they lie at the very center of your being. In this important episode, you’ll discover your Core Gifts through a simple 3 step process. If you’re truly looking to transform your dating life, please don’t miss this one! It captures the heart and soul of the entire Deeper Dating® path.
How Do You Know You’re Really In Love: And When Do You Reveal It? [EP141]
How do you know you’re truly in love? How do you tell if it’s the kind of love that can last? And…how and when do you reveal to someone that you’ve fallen in love with them? Join us as we explore these exciting but complicated questions.
Deeper Dating® Q&A/Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating and Sex [EP140]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, and dating to Ken, and get his direct personal advice. In this episode, we explore what to do when you keep getting attracted to people who aren’t good for you, and how to build sexual attraction with people who are good for you. And lots more!
A New Generation of Deeper Ways to Meet with Christina Weber [EP139]
There’s a growing pool of powerful resources for single people who are looking for deeper, more authentic ways to meet and connect. In this episode, I speak with Christina Weber, CEO of WeDeepen.com, an amazing network of events, happenings and communities that foster deeper and more authentic connections. Join us and learn more about what’s out there and what’s possible.
The Toxic Dating Advice Almost Everyone Believes [EP138]
These three pieces of almost universally accepted dating advice may be blocking you from the very love you’re seeking. Learn to recognize them so you can unshackle yourself from the self-sabotage and unnecessary pain they create. You’ll speed your path to healthy love–including love of yourself!
How to Turn Your Dating Life Into an Adventure of Growth [EP137]
How can you turn your search for love into an adventure of growth? Can you learn to date in a way that generates a sense of mystery, possibility, and empowerment? The answer is yes–when you learn to tap into your own inner guidance. In this episode, I’ll teach you to how to do exactly that.
The Powerful Gifts (and Challenges) of Monogamy [EP136]
In this episode, we will explore the deep and powerful gifts of monogamy, and the life-changing challenges it brings. I’ll also share a framework to understand monogamy in a new and exciting way. This episode offers rich insights for everyone: single, coupled, monogamous, or polyamorous. Enjoy!
Sex, Hooking Up, and Love (My Story) [EP135]
In this episode, I share my personal journey around sex, hooking up, and looking for love. I speak from my perspectives as a gay man, a psychotherapist, and a seeker of understanding about love.
Online Dating, Race, and the Search for Love with Damona Hoffman [EP134]
The experience of being “othered” is such a prevalent, universal experience in the world of dating. And it occurs powerfully around issues of race, in very particular ways, in the world of online dating. In this episode, I interview Damona Hoffman, host of the Dates and Mates Podcast, about this under-discussed and hugely important subject.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating and Sex [EP133]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, and dating to Ken, and get his direct personal advice. In this episode, we explore what to do when you’re not finding good dates – or any dates at all! We’ll also look at the best ways to handle sexual difficulties in a new relationship. Don’t miss!
The Most Important Things I Know About Finding Love [EP132]
In this episode, I share the deepest and most important lessons I’ve learned in decades of working as a psychotherapist specializing in the wiser search for love. These are the insights that have given me the most hope and the most clarity. Find out which ring true for you and how you can use them to speed and ease your path to love.
Awakening to Your True Love Identity with Katherine Woodward Thomas [EP131]
How can we claim our deep and innate ability to create love? How do we claim the inner power to manifest the things we care about most in our lives? And how do we awaken to our true love identity?
The visionary New York Times bestselling author Katherine Woodward Thomas has created a life-changing protocol to do exactly that, and she teaches it to us, step-by-step, in this incredibly inspiring episode. Don’t miss this!
Is This a Stepping Stone Relationship or a Lasting Love? [EP130]
What is a stepping stone relationship? How does it differ from lasting love, and how do you distinguish between the two? Can you turn a steppingstone relationship into lasting love? Check out this episode to learn more!
How To Love Yourself First [EP129]
[social_warfare] Listen to the podcast here What is the powerful secret to loving ourselves that almost none of us get taught? Why do our efforts to love ourselves often feel like they lack the necessary leverage? Learning these lessons changes the way we date and the way we live. In this episode,
Discover Personal Guiding Insights: Rocket Fuel For Your Search For Love [EP128]
Buried underneath all the nagging “shoulds” of your search for love lie your Guiding Insights: messages from your deepest self that have the power to change your life and lead you to healthy love. How can you find these amazing insights? And what do you do with them when they come? Join us to find out.
How To Turn Your Dating Life Into A Spiritual Adventure [EP127]
Yep, the dating path is strewn with countless “fresh hells.” But your search for love can also bring you real joy and heal your life. The key? Learn how to tune in to your own inner guidance-whispers. Face the ways you push love away and learn your intimacy lessons right now. In this episode, I’ll teach you three processes with the power to open those very doors. This is life-changing stuff folks; don’t miss it!
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP126]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to Ken and get his direct personal advice. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to actually transform your dating patterns–from unavailable and unsatisfying relationships to relationships that are beautiful, sexy, sustainable, and nourishing. This episode has some truly moving questions-which I read aloud!
Single on Valentine’s Day? 3 Reasons For Big Hope [EP125]
If you’re single on Valentine’s Day, this episode is for you. These 3 reasons for big hope may fly in the face of most everything you’ve learned about dating, but they truly lead to healthy, lovely, sustainable love. Enjoy each of these reasons. because they point to your new future.
How To Embrace The Thrilling Risk Of Authenticity [EP 124]
[social_warfare] Listen to podcast here So much of our self-improvement is just self-critique in a sexy outfit. Our culture focuses obsessively on the endless quest for improvement, but there’s a much more thrilling area of inquiry: What parts of ourselves are aching for expression, and why do we flee their heat? Our answers to those
Dating Principles That Heal Your Life AND Lead To Love [EP 123]
There’s a hard-work miracle that happens when we learn the skills of wiser dating: Not only do we find healthy love more quickly; we actually heal our lives in the process. Before you’re in a relationship, with or without therapy, (and I deeply believe in the power of good therapy!) you can learn to develop a more secure attachment style, learn deep self-love, and live in braver and more passionate ways. And every one of those skills will speed your path to healthy love! Learn these wonderful, life-changing principles in the episode!
How To Bring Deep Joy And Emotional Safety To Sex: An Interview With Tantra Expert Grant Shepherd [Ep 122]
Whether single or coupled, sexually active or not, we can use the ancient tools of tantra to create deep friendship between our humanity, our spirituality, and our sexuality. That experience is the key to sexual healing, spiritual growth, and deep interpersonal intimacy. In this amazing, inspiring interview with tantra expert Grant Shepherd, you’ll learn practices you can use right away to create that remarkable and joyful inner state.
Two Questions That Help You Discover Your Sexual Core Gifts [Ep 121]
These two questions will help you identify your unique sexual Core Gifts, the places of your deepest passion, vulnerability, and love; the amazing place where deep love fuses with deep passion. Get ready for a gentle journey to the zone of your deepest sexual and emotional gifts. Enjoy!
The Two Greatest Keys To Success In Dating [Ep 120]
What are the two most essential and empowering research-backed ways that can supercharge your search for love? These are the two greatest keys I know.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP 119]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to Ken and get his direct personal advice. Today, we’ll talk about what to do when you meet someone wonderful, safe and trustworthy and difficulties and rifts begin to occur in your relationship. Should you go or stay? What do you do when you start doubting your attraction? What do you do when the other person pulls away?
How to Develop Your Attraction to the Right Person [EP118]
I’m taking a one-episode break to take care of a family member so I’d like to share a replay of one of my most important episodes. It connects to many of the questions that people have been asking me recently, and I hope you enjoy it! This is the most powerful insight I know to
Research-Backed Neuro-Spiritual Technique To Help You Love: An Interview With Dawson Church [EP117]
EFT or tapping is one of the most beautiful and powerful techniques I know to address trauma, connect to a sense of deep inner resilience, compassion, peace and wisdom. There have been over 100 research studies proving its efficacy. Dawson Church is one of the world’s foremost researchers and teachers of the technique. PLEASE don’t miss this episode, and give yourself the gift of this wonderful tool. I use it every day!
Try This When It’s Too Hard To Love – LOVE POD TOUR [EP116]
All of us at some time feel as though we are too broken or too wounded to be able to love successfully. Maybe we shut down, or go numb, or get stuck in relentless anger or sadness. Maybe we retreat within and just can’t come out. In this episode, I’ll share truly life-changing tools to help us discover the Core Gift that lies at the heart of our wounding so that we can find the self-love we need to be able to authentically connect again.
How To Rewire Your Attractions To Find Real And Healthy Love [EP115]
There are three great keys to help you uplevel your entire search for love, heal attachment wounds and increase your chances of finding beautiful, healthy sustainable love. You’ll learn each of them in this important episode, and you’ll have the chance to begin to apply them right away to your own dating life or relationships.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP114]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to Ken and get his direct personal advice. Today, we’ll talk about what to do when someone you’re dating starts to pull away; deciding to become a single parent, the single most powerful way to change unhelpful dating patterns, and much more!
Create Your Personal Love-Wisdom Practice [EP113]
[social_warfare] Listen to the podcast here One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is to create a personal practice that delivers daily access to deeper wisdom about your own love life. In this episode, I’ll teach you how to create a personal practice that can truly change your future. Over time, your
How To Protect Heart, Soul And Self In Online Dating: An Interview With Charly Lester [EP112]
What can we do to protect ourselves from the physical and emotional risks in online dating? And what are the keys to handling the stress, anxiety, and burnout online dating can create? In this interview with brilliant online dating innovator, fearless adventurer and humanitarian Charly Lester, we’ll explore how you can better protect and care for yourself in your online dating life.
Freedom Versus Intimacy: How To Have Both [EP111]
We all long for closeness and depth and intimacy — but we also desperately need freedom and space. How do we work with these two profoundly different needs in our lives and relationships? In this episode of the Deeper Dating® Podcast, you’ll learn some of the most liberating ways I know.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP110]
In this Deeper Dating® Q& A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to Ken and get his direct personal advice. Today, we’ll talk about really liking someone, but still feeling blocked, what to do when you and your partner have different life goals, building a family of creation with friends, how to develop self-love, and much more.
The 3 Questions That Reveal Your Deepest Intimacy Gifts [EP109]
Your Core Gifts lie at the very heart of your ability to find and nurture generative, beautiful, healthy love. They are the deepest language of your inner self, and the degree to which you value them and understand them is the degree to which you will make wiser, more empowered choices in love—and everywhere else. These three simple, illuminating questions will invite you to a life-changing adventure of self-discovery.
Is There Chemistry? Here’s What You Need To Know [EP108]
Is there chemistry? That’s a necessary question. But the bigger question lies right behind that! Because different types of chemistries lead to different futures. This is why it’s so essential to understand how your “chemistries” have guided your love life. In this episode, we’ll explore which kinds of chemistries to follow–and which to stay away from–for a happy future in love. These insights can change your entire search for love–and empower you to love yourself more deeply!
Love, Spirit And The Entrepreneur’s Journey: An Interview With Tami Simon [EP107]
Conscious love, conscious business, conscious spirituality! In this episode, I had the privilege of interviewing Tami Simon, the brilliant, soulful and very authentic CEO of Sounds True; the world’s largest living library of transformational teachings to support and accelerate spiritual awakening and personal transformation. For me, this stunning interview was a spiritual experience. Not to be missed!
How To Reclaim Self-Love When It Goes Away [EP106]
Sometimes life and love just feel too hard. Sometimes it seems like self-love has gone into hiding. In this episode, I’ll teach you a few powerful tools for reclaiming that beautiful experience of self-love, even in the most challenging situations.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP105]
In this Deeper Dating® Q& A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to Ken and get his direct personal advice. Today, we’ll help you get past the pain of breakups, recognize attractions of deprivation more quickly, deal with painful aspects of healthy relationships, and more!
Addiction And Love: An Interview With Rob Weiss, Ph.D. [EP104]
Addiction in all its forms has powerfully impacted so many of our lives. In this episode, I interview Dr. Rob Weiss, the world-renowned expert in addiction and love. If you’ve ever struggled with issues of addiction in the lives of the people you love–or even in your own life–then I truly encourage you not to miss this episode.
How Deep Friendship Paves The Way To Deepest Love [EP103]
Building a wonderful family of creation is the foundation of a rich life. And we don’t need a romantic partner to do that. In fact, building a family of creation is often the best path to the romantic love we dream of. If we can’t find and nourish profound friendship, it’s unlikely we will be able to find and sustain romantic love. In this episode, we’ll learn how to build the amazing gift of a family of creation.
3 Powerful Ways To Speed Your Path To Love—Right Now! [EP102]
There are three powerful ways to speed your path to love—right now! Each of these things changes your future in love, helps you grow into a fuller expression of the person you are meant to be, and deepens your capacity for true intimacy. Try them right now and watch what happens!
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP101]
In this Deeper Dating® Q&A episode, listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to host Ken Page and get his direct personal advice. Today, we’ll explore how to recognize your Core Gifts, how to understand and recognize marijuana overuse in a partner, how to understand your attraction patterns, ….and more!
How To Liberate Yourself From The Dating Slog [EP100]
It’s the 100th episode! And there’s no way around it; dating can feel like an unhappy repetition of the same disappointing, time-consuming and frustrating old experiences. Here are some wonderful techniques to bring you back to inspiration, courage and a wonderful sense of new direction – and perhaps even fun. In this episode, you’ll find the hope it sometimes feels like you’ve lost.
4 Beautiful, Powerful V-Day Gifts For Singles And Couples! [EP099]
Valentine’s Day.. a loaded and emotional time for many of us. Here are four of the most wonderful intimacy hacks I know, V Day or not! I absolutely love each one of these. Two are for single people, two are for people in relationships, and they are interchangeable. Anyone can modify these practices to apply to their circumstances. Enjoy! Share your stories. I want to hear!
How To Discover Your Core Gifts In Your Most Challenging Qualities [EP098]
How do we handle the parts of ourselves that get us in trouble again and again in our lives? In this episode, you’ll learn a much more powerful way to work with them, and you’ll also discover the gift that lies at their core.
A Life-Changing Exercise for Everyone Who Has Lost A Loved One [EP097]
I’m very excited to share a powerful and transformational process for anyone who has lost a loved one, and to share some very personal stories about my own experiences with this exercise in my own life. This process is truly life-changing!
How To Change The Script Of Your Love Life [EP096]
How do you truly change the script of your love life so the same painful patterns don’t keep happening again and again – and newer, wiser patterns can take their place? In this episode, you’ll learn some powerful and life-transforming tools to change the course of your future in love.
How To Discover Your Personal “Myth Of Lost Love” [EP095]
Your Myth of Lost Love is the story you created to help you make sense of love. Your myth profoundly impacts the people you choose, the ways you behave in loving relationships, and ultimately, your entire intimacy journey. In this episode, you’ll discover your own personal Myth of Lost Love–and the deep Core Gifts at the heart of this myth.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP094]
Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to host Ken Page and get his personal direct advice in Ken’s Q and A podcasts. We’ll explore what it means when your partner’s scent turns you off, how to handle a partner who asks you to go faster than you’re ready for…or who pulls away from you when things are just starting to speed up in a wonderful direction….and more!
Swipe Circuitry: How Online Dating Trains Us To Stay Single [EP093]
“Swipe circuitry” is a wildly-compelling behavior pattern sculpted by online dating. As it dangles the promise of love in front of us, swipe circuitry subtly leads us away from the very love we’re seeking. In this episode, you’ll learn what Swipe Circuitry is and how to get past it. This is an essential skill for anyone using swiping apps!
2 Wonderful Ways To Heal Your Inner Conflicts [EP092]
What determines how much love and meaning your life can hold? Largely, the way you handle your inner conflicts! In this episode, you’ll learn two beautiful, quick, “wisdom-hacks” that will help you handle your inner conflicts in completely new ways. Try these techniques as you listen—I’ll teach you how—and watch how self-love grows, inner feelings of emptiness diminish, and a sense of deep well-being emerges. By the end of the episode, the techniques will be yours!
How To Empower Your Deepest Intimacy Gifts [EP091]
Core gifts are the most tender, passionate, and authentic parts of us. They lie at the very heart of our ability to love. To embrace them is to be guided inexorably to deeper love, greater authenticity, and our very life-mission. To ignore them is to commit an act of quiet violence against ourselves. Join Ken Page in this episode to discover, nourish, and embrace your own core gifts.
How To Experience Sexual Healing While You’re Still Single: Sex Therapist Mike Moran [EP090]
Right now, while you’re single, you can give yourself the gift of sexual healing! During this time, you can heal trauma, discover your own inner sexual language, and learn to honor your body and sexuality in deeper ways than ever before. Join me as I interview Mike Moran, an inspired, compassionate, internationally renowned sex therapist, and the Founder and Director of the Center for Relational Fulfillment.
Trump, Coronavirus, And The Greatest Lesson Of Love [EP089]
Toxic relationships affect our lives in the most profound ways. They can be compelling beyond belief – and over time the damage they cause is profound. This same dynamic is playing out on the world stage: In the case of coronavirus we have a breathtaking view into the nature of narcissism – and it’s costing us countless lives. The issue isn’t primarily about policy or politics – it’s about character. And our country has married someone who cannot take care of us.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP088]
Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to host Ken Page and get his personal direct advice in Ken’s Q and A podcasts. Today’s subjects include institutionalized racism in online dating, feeling gun-shy about dating after bad experiences, a new boyfriend who sometimes doesn’t text back, and more.
Enlightened Audacity: The Key To Heart-Filling Intimacy [EP087]
Enlightened Audacity is perhaps the greatest skill we can learn in love. Enlightened Audacity means being brave enough to present the real version of ourselves (not the airbrushed one) and then taking the time and care to express ourselves in a way that honors the humanity of whomever we’re interacting with. In this episode, you’ll learn the simple, powerful steps required to master this life-changing way of relating.
The 5 Toxic Dating Myths Everyone Needs to Reject [EP086]
Sadly, many of the most toxic, misleading and ineffective dating myths are taught everywhere–and are almost universally accepted! In this episode, I’ll take apart 5 of the biggest pieces of toxic dating advice and show why they will actually lead you away from love –and straight to insecurity. You’ll also learn much more effective ways to find love that don’t ask you to contort yourself into ways of being that just aren’t authentically you.
How To Discover Your Intimacy Shadow [EP085]
All of us have essential aspects of ourselves that we’ve learned to hide or suppress in order to protect ourselves. When we claim these “shadow parts,” we profoundly increase our capacity for love and we find access to a tremendous sense of personal power. In this episode, you’ll learn to identify your own intimacy shadow and use it to lead you to love – and your own unique life-genius.
How We Can Invite Love Back [EP084]
Why can love so easily feel like it’s gone into hiding? And what can we do to invite love back? Why does even solid love often feel less than solid? In this episode, we’ll learn ways that help us connect more consistently to the love inside us, and the love inside the people we care about.
Deeper Dating® Q&A: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP083]
Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating, and relationships to host Ken Page and get his personal direct advice in Ken’s Q and A podcasts. Today’s powerful questions include: “How do I manage dating during COVID times?” and, “I’m losing attraction to someone as he becomes more available. What should I do?”
The Two Questions You Need To Ask About Your Relationship [EP082]
This episode teaches two essential questions to ask yourself about any relationship. These powerful questions have the power to deepen and transform almost any relationship—including your relationship with yourself. Just answer the questions silently to yourself as you listen to the episode, and you’ll come to a much deeper, more helpful understanding of that relationship—and of yourself.
5 Questions That Will Illuminate Your Path To Love [EP081]
These 5 questions truly will illuminate your path to love. Just answer them as you go (no need to write anything down), and by the end of the episode, you will understand some of the most profound truths of your life journey and your search for love. In the words of Chip Conley, “A question, thoughtfully conceived, can illuminate a room, a company, a life.” Let’s do this together!
3 Powerful Hacks To Help You Find Love Online [EP080]
These powerful hacks are designed to help you find love online more quickly and with less pain! Each will help you learn important lessons of dating and love, and all of them will support you in becoming someone who loves more deeply and more wisely. Join Ken Page in this episode and you’ll finish it with a much richer understanding of your own next steps in your intimacy journey.
The Single Greatest Resource In Your Search For Love [EP079]
There’s a resource in our search for love that trumps absolutely everything else: it’s our intuition! But sometimes, what feels like intuition is just bad judgment laced with really clever rationalizations! How can we learn to trust our intuition more fully and wisely? And how do we know when we’re better off not trusting our gut? Learn more in this important episode.
How To Know If You’re Progressing In Your Search For Love [EP078]
How do you know if you’re progressing in your search for love? Dating is hard; there’s no question about that. But if you can actually see that you’re progressing, and if you have markers to prove it, that will ease and speed your path to love. In this episode, you’ll learn some of the greatest markers of growth and progress in your search for love.
The Simple Question That Will Lead You To Love [EP077]
In this episode, you’ll learn the simple question that will lead you to a future that’s rich in love, growth, and adventure. Ken Page will tell how that question led him to become a single father, and, years later, meet his husband! By the end of the episode, you’ll have a wonderful and empowering intimacy tool for your own life
How To Discover Your Unique Intimacy-Genius [EP076]
You can discover your own unique intimacy genius, and this episode will teach you how. In the following audio and blog post, you’ll learn tools to discover your deepest Core Gifts, and you’ll learn how to use those gifts to create powerful and positive changes in your dating life, your relationships, and your capacity to love and accept yourself more deeply.
Q and A With Ken: Expert Advice for All Your Questions About Love, Dating and Sex [EP075]
Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating and relationships to Ken–and get his personal direct advice in Ken’s Q and A podcasts. Once a month, Ken answers your personal questions about love, dating, sex and more. Today’s powerful questions include: The person I’m seeing is wonderful–but I keep wanting more! My relationship might be ending, but I want to keep it alive. I’m with someone great, but I wish I was more physically attracted.
The 5 Most Important Points In Early Dating [E074]
The 5 most important points in early dating often decide the course of your romantic future. At each of these points, there are intimacy-skills that make all the difference in the world. In this episode, you’ll learn the key skills to navigate these crucial points with wisdom, self-love and bravery.
How to Cultivate Authentic Intimacy in Online Dating: Relationship Coach Jordan Gray [EP073]
If you want to cultivate authentic intimacy in online dating, here’s the most important thing to know: It’s not about tricks and gimmicks. It’s about the bravery to be yourself! In this episode, the wonderful Jordan Gray teaches the steps we need to take to do exactly that. There are love-lessons ( and life lessons!) in this episode that are truly not to be missed!
How To Shift Your Field To Attract More Intimacy [EP072]
There’s a powerful and easy-to-use way to shift your “field” to attract more intimacy–and I’ll teach it to you in this episode. This one process will help draw people who are right for you–and help you spot the people who aren’t. Moreover, it will help you notice the small and large invitations to love in your day-to-day life. Hop in to learn more!
When To Have Sex In Early Dating [EP071]
Sex in early dating: When is too soon? When is too long? (And is there really a “too soon” and “too long?”) In this episode we’ll look at the signs that it’s not the right time to have sex–and signs that it is the right time. We’ll explore the three essential ingredients to cultivate a soulful, erotically wonderful, emotionally safe connection with someone we’re dating.
One Thousand And One Tales of Dating: Yue and Julie of The Dateable Podcast [EP070]
Julie and Yue are smart, caring and intrepid explorers of the landscape of today’s dating world. In this episode, they share their most moving dating stories, their best advice, and the most essential challenges facing daters today. This was an incredible conversation: I hope you enjoy it!
What Happens When Gratitude Doesn’t Work? [EP069]
Cultivating Gratitude is wonderful, but forced gratitude clouds our judgement and creates self-doubt and self-recrimination. Sometimes, it’s much wiser to just admit that we’re hurting, that things don’t feel right, that something just has to change. In this episode, we’ll explore when gratitude really helps us and when it holds us back. And we’ll explore how to use the power of non-gratitude to create positive change in our lives.
5 Simple Shifts That Will Speed Your Path to Love [EP068]
In this episode, you’ll learn 5 simple shifts that will speed your path to love–and help you learn deeper self-love and authentic, unforced confidence. These tips may fly in the face of much of what you’ve been taught about dating, but they have the power to truly transform your search for love, save you huge amounts of time, and deepen your capacity to nurture the love that’s in your future!
The Stunning Power of The Qualities You Hide In Love [EP067]
There truly is stunning power in the qualities you hide in your love relationships. These parts feel most tender, most passionate, most central to our inner lives. When we learn to appreciate and champion these “Core Gifts” our worlds change–and our search for love moves toward available people who love us for who we are. In this episode, you’ll discover your most central Core Gifts in the parts of yourself you hide.
How To Finally Find Your People: An Interview With Jillian Richardson [EP066]
Jillian Richardson is the author of Unlonely Planet, and she’s all about helping you to finally find your people; your tribe. She believes that bringing people together is a sacred act, and in this delightful episode, Jillian teaches how everyone–at any age and in any circumstance (including social distancing)–can find a whole new order of deeper, more joyful community. This episode is filled with tools and tips to help you find your people–online and off. I’m thrilled to share her expertise and passion with you.
How to Stop Relying on Your False Self and Reclaim Your Authentic Power [EP065]
All of us have a false self, created to protect us as we move through life. That false self has no true personal power. When we rely on it, we feel like we’re climbing a wobbly ladder. This episode teaches how you can stop relying on your false self and reclaim your true self, where your real power, ingenuity, and deepest truth lie. It is the key to an empowered and intimate life. Living from our true self is life’s greatest adventure!
3 Steps to Resolving the Conflicts In Your Life [EP064]
These 3 steps to resolving the conflicts In your life have the power to deepen all of your intimate relationships, including your relationship with yourself. Each of these three steps leads to a deeper state of authenticity; to a gentle, skillful “overthrow” of the inner and outer voices which hold us back from deeper love.
The Two Things You Need To Find In A Partner [EP063]
There are two things that you need to find in a partner. If you put these two traits front and center, you’ll give yourself the very best shot at a future of happiness. These are also the two traits each of us needs to develop if we want the privilege of a love-filled life. Looking for these traits, and developing them in ourselves, are the greatest dating skills of all. Welcome to your best and truest dating adventure!
How To Discover Your Greatest Intimacy Gifts [EP062]
In this episode, you’ll learn how to discover your greatest intimacy gifts. These “Core Gifts” are the key to finding, attracting, and growing deep and true love. As you learn to name and honor your unique Core Gifts, your dating life will shift in profound and unexpectedly wonderful ways. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a new sense of your own greatest intimacy gifts.
Q&A With Ken: Expert Advice For All Your Questions About Love, Dating And Sex [EP061]
Listeners bring their most important questions about love, sex, dating and relationships to Ken and get his personal direct advice in Ken’s Q and A podcasts. Once a month, Ken answers your personal questions about love, dating, sex and more. Today’s powerful questions are all about sexual and romantic attraction.
How To Release Your Barriers To Love [EP060]
What’s the great secret to release your barriers to love? It’s understanding specifically how they are protecting you! Armed with that knowledge, you’ll be able to “whisper” them down, sometimes more quickly than you ever might have imagined. In this episode, I’ll teach you some simple, life-changing techniques to help you learn the secret language of your own barriers to love, and to release them–starting right now.
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About ken Page and The Deeper Dating Podcast
Who is Ken Page?
KEN PAGE, LCSW, is a renowned psychotherapist, popular Psychology Today blogger, Huffington Post blogger and author of the bestseller Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy.
He has been featured in O, The Oprah Magazine, The New York Times, Cosmopolitan, Fox News, WPIX-TV News, Match.com, ChristianMingle, JDate and more.
Page has led hundreds of workshops on intimacy and spirituality for thousands of participants. He has taught at Columbia University, the Omega Institute and the Garrison Institute. In addition to his writing, coaching and psychotherapy practice, Ken founded Deeper Dating in 2004 as an event platform in which trained facilitators speak on sexuality, intimacy, and spirituality in the world of dating and then lead participants in a series of fun and enriching exercises.
The live events he has led provide an alternative to the bar scene and superficial dating events. They have drawn thousands of men and women of all ages and sexual orientations and have received much media attention. Stay tuned for his new online version of Deeper Dating!
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Deeper Dating® is counter-intuitive, and it is among the best manuals for succeeding in finding and keeping love we have seen. Not only does he encourage you to leave your defenses at home, he shows you with many illustrations and exercises just how to prepare for the ultimate relationship with someone who is just right for you.
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Author of The Soulmate Secret, Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, and more.
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Ken Page offers his years of experience as a therapist, coupled with his deep wisdom and knowledge about relationships, provides a life-changing guidance for those seeking the path to true love. His compassionate heart and teaching style are a joy to experience.
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New York Times bestselling author of Calling In “The One” and Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After
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Founder of FemininePower.com
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Many teachers talk about intimacy, love and dating, yet Ken Page stands out from the crowd because his understanding is at a level of depth and embodiment few teachers in this world have attained. Being in his very presence enables a person to heal and to have the experience of feeling lovable, worthy and “enough.” I can’t recommend his work more highly.
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Author/co-author of Healing Your Aloneness and Inner Bonding
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Deeper Dating® Was A Revelation To Me
If you desire a soulmate, lead with your soul. So many of us come from that place of looking for that person who “completes” us, but Ken helped me to see that I desire a partner who “reflects” the best in me. Show your core gifts of vulnerability and authenticity and you’ll find a partner who does the same.
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